Control

You have control over yourself and nothing else. Set goals that you know you can accomplish reasonably. You need to become your own best friend. Pick yourself to be the team captain of your life. Then but together a team that will support you in the path you want to take. You are incharge! Go for broke. Give it all you got. It's your life.

Fences

There are many things in our lives that happen to cause us to but up fences around our hearts. In my life there have been times when my fence has been an eight foot barbed wire fence with razor wire on the top. This type of fence doesn't allow anyone in or out. My heart was sealed from being hurt again and at the same time healing was not allowed in.

I now have a fence that is protective and welcoming at the same time. It is a white three foot picket fence with a welcome sign at the gate. I still feel safe and yet the healing influence of others is able to enter at the gate. You might want to try this type of fence. I feel open to the possibilities that life has to offer.